The Rise of Dating-App Fatigue
Services like Tinder and Hinge are no longer shiny new toys, and some users are starting to find them more frustrating than fun. Single people have the choice to find love thanks to these online dating applications and websites. Variety, diversity but also flexibility should make it easy to find your one. However, polls and statistics seem to show that there are more and more single persons on the market, relationships do not last as long as they used to be and even worst than this, cheating and unfaithfulness are on the rise according to the online magazine ‘the express.co.uk’. Indeed, the Brits behave badly: People in the UK take more lovers than the French, says a new study. Almost half (65 per cent) of British men using these applications admit to straying from their significant other at least once and a considerable 21 per cent of UK women said the same. The question that we might wonder is the following : are the dating applications aim to help you in your search of love or do they encourage furthermore in your desire of chasing?
I believe technology has distracted us from real human connection. Hookup culture has infected our brains and turned us into soulless sex-hungry swipe creatures .From my point of view, people who use these dating applications or websites tend to lose the core and essence of courtesy, romance and seduction. Without sounding old fashioned and pessimistic, the current situation for single persons using these tools on a daily basis is rather disappointing for most of them if they have high standards when it comes to love. Would you picture your Mr or Mrs Right as someone able of sending crude sextos as well as photos of his/her private? Meanwhile and we can’t deny it, true love stories blossomed thanks to these . It is a bit like lottery games where we can find lucky winners who manage to find the perfect match via dating websites or applications. Happy ending does exist , like a fairy tale in which they get married and have children.
To conclude on this topic, we might wonder if these modern ways of finding love are also effective and enjoyable to use to get what people want? Of course, results can vary depending from your choices and desire whether it is to hook up or have casual sex, to date casually, or to date as a way of actively looking for a relationship. Beware and behave, let it go and watch cautiously how things go…